Peter and I recently celebrated our 20^th wedding anniversary-which should be cause for celebration. What we weren't planning on though, was how busy our life would be. Between working, running the kids to practices and caring for my chronically ill mom, our marriage has taken a back seat. Sometimes when I look at Peter, I feel I barely even know him anymore. I wonder if we're still really compatible, and I'm afraid we may end up separating when the kids leave. I feel like I'm at a crossroads and have no idea which direction to go.